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and what you just wrote is so fucking true.i know some frens just cant keep their mouth shut coz they will pull the i tell u smth but dont tell anyone thingi and then goes on and tell me what friend A/B/C told them.
War! War! War!
*hugs* dun angry. :)
not that that had anything to do with your rant here. but y'know, maybe everyone, when they tell their girlfriends anything, should just be like HI CAN YOU NOT TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND/HUSBAND THIS PLEASE KTHX.
;)
Chill lar, if you think ur girlfriends or even boyfriends to a certain extend can't be a good listener, than keep going on the list, i'm sure you can find someone...veli veli sure
So you can tell me....... LOL!
Ah~
Nevermind..
=P
Sometimes i do find people who thinks that they wish to keep some secret to themselves, but then suddenly decides to blog about it, thinking that no one would ever read or know about it.
Can be very wrong..
And i mean very very wrong...
---_____---""
whatever happened to 'i want to blog about - we all should go out and register and vote the opposition party in the next election?'
or
'girls playing dumb to get men should be hanged upside down?'
ok, the last one i made up but i know u want to. *wink*wink*
currently something is happening around me.. something like ur last paragraph.
would be nice if we can talk about it on msn.. but ur not in my list. hmm
huhu i know how u feel.some people =.=' i always wonder,didnt they ever thought that it could be backfired?like u told them x to tell any1 but then told the entire universe about it,and 1 day,when they have problem n told u to just keep it to urself,didnt they ever wonder how it would feel like if u do what they did to u before?
"treat others like u wanna be treated."
how come they never registered this in their brains? =.=
anyways,love ur blog XD
anyway i guess we're all guilty about some of those stuff in a way, and it has really made me kinda reflect on such issues. at least you got a good listening ear from martian right? (assumption)
but for my part, i'd honor my word to keep a secret if it is a secret secret ......
It's kinda hard la, sometimes slip of tongue and all that, and that are people whom you can trust to tell, but they accidentally mention it in front of another of their close friend or two, and so on! =(
jane : right now some coffee would be great O_O
ashleighhh : memangs
thegeekinpink : i love it when people commiserate with me :P
melvin : i would love it if they had anwar come speak
kennysia : im trying not to :(
hanna : hey i heard that too, on jay leno! but he went like "83% of women tell their spouses / boyfriends when you tell them a secret.. but the good news is 100% of the men arent listening anyway." ahahahaha
jonathan : i think im quite lucky to have a handful of people i can turn to who are both good listeners and understand me well :) i hope u find urs too. sometimes all we really need is one person
michelle : do u promise never to blab anything!
wan siong : maybe last time lah, but i believe bloggers nowadays dont do that anymore :) as in post something and then act all shocked when people find out
michael : sigh yeah i know what u mean. unfortunately thats one of the things in this world thats out of our control
naz : dowan lah malas already!!
smashpop : aww sorry to hear that :( catch u on gtalk soon
heartless usagi : haha how can u be a heartless rabbit! rabbits are so cute. and yeah some people just take friendships for granted i suppose.
gaelan : looking around me, i dont think there are many people who are like that? i can name about like 5 and thats it. and i know to steer clear of people like them when it comes to the juicy gossip. and martian is a total eavesdropper!!!!!
artificially : ur my kind of person. eh faster call lah im still waiting for ur steak question
sheon : how about when people dont ask u to keep it secret, but u know it's a delicate issue? do u keep quiet then?
jun : such is human nature i suppose. gotta cover all bases eh
karyn : nooo u know whats the hard part. like when someone u like as a friend asks u a question about something, and then u dont know if you should answer? coz it's not like u dont trust the person or anything, just that it's a sensitive issue. i get that problem all the time, then i feel guilty for withholding information =(
What?! Tthe rational here is that they do not know your circle of friends, and vice versa! Happy-happy! ;-)
*chucks tennis balls at u
Now, I wish I was a man. At least I don`t need to express my feelings.[ Do they? ] Plus, men don`t gossip. Only women. Sigh.
and that is why i hardly tell them things anymore.
I hope whoever did this to you trips on something and dies. What a goddamn unforgivable act of perfidy.
And yes it really SUCKS when people use your name to bitch about other people. If you want to be a backstabbing idiot at least be brave enough to bear the full brunt of the responsibility! (Nvm don't worry. Even though they're allowed to exist because God is too nice sometimes these people usually get beaten up and thrown in a ditch before their 30th birthday.. : P)
well..maybe you need some one who really trustable..
been a long time since I left a comment... compliments to the ever efficient technicians who never seem to remember to put the internet filter to "OFF"...
for this ranting of yours, I seriously feel you...
only one solution to this...
tell your problems to a member of the opposite sex...
somehow the secret is safer there... don ask me why... it just does
That's why men are smart enough to go to pubs and talk to stranger guys who are half-drunk and they literally forget almost everything. Cuz they were half-drunk.
Good listeners are good learners.