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Re: Eh I Tell You Something Lah But You Dont Tell Anybody

SzeWei — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 21:28:52 -0000

I remember being a really bad listener, until I literally encountered one and stopped being like that. KARMA
That's why men are smart enough to go to pubs and talk to stranger guys who are half-drunk and they literally forget almost everything. Cuz they were half-drunk.
Good listeners are good learners.

Re: Eh I Tell You Something Lah But You Dont Tell Anybody

Porcupine — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 06:48:39 -0000

hi pinkpau!!!
been a long time since I left a comment... compliments to the ever efficient technicians who never seem to remember to put the internet filter to "OFF"...

for this ranting of yours, I seriously feel you...
only one solution to this...
tell your problems to a member of the opposite sex...
somehow the secret is safer there... don ask me why... it just does

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Michael — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 13:09:30 -0000

some ppl tell made up own secrets for extra publicity~yahoo~ now u know why some secret-blowing person gets their place anyway~

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hitomi — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 11:05:12 -0000

as you said, you never learn but you should...
well..maybe you need some one who really trustable..

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Charlie — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 09:19:43 -0000

Man, that's just fecking terrible. : | It's so hard to accept the fact that there are actually gabby dipshits out there who are so utilitarian that they'd turn other people's secrets into some kind of attention-whoring tool..

I hope whoever did this to you trips on something and dies. What a goddamn unforgivable act of perfidy.

And yes it really SUCKS when people use your name to bitch about other people. If you want to be a backstabbing idiot at least be brave enough to bear the full brunt of the responsibility! (Nvm don't worry. Even though they're allowed to exist because God is too nice sometimes these people usually get beaten up and thrown in a ditch before their 30th birthday.. : P)

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Lalita — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 08:34:49 -0000

PS - We will try harder next time to well and truly learn our lesson with trusting people who should NOT be trusted. You poor girl!!! I recently had a similar problem - very UNPLEASANT la!!!

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Lalita — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 08:30:21 -0000

Su Ann, don't be so hard on yourself. What it is is probably that you yourself would not repeat another person's secrets and so expect the same courtesy from others. As for learning, aiyah, we all repeat the same mistakes sometimes. I have the same issue - I never learn after being burnt badly - still open my mouth when I shouldn't tell people who will repeat things to others. Once bitten twice shy does not always apply, eh? We've all been there, girl!

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Karyn — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 04:26:01 -0000

Oh okay I get it now. I know it feels bad to withhold info, however it's better than the alternative. But still =(

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airzoom79 — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 02:38:57 -0000

a good listener is always a dog... get a dog as ur pet & u'll knw wat i mean...

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sheon — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 20:52:11 -0000

delicate issues? if i seek my friends' comment, then i will js tell them the situation and omit all hints that would help them figure out who are involved. my usual buddies are actually very considerate when it comes to these kinda things one lar.......not the gossipy type.

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Michelle — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 17:38:18 -0000

Usually, I don't blab about people's secret. I tend to blab about mine.... I don't know why..........

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reallybites — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 12:51:14 -0000

but it would mean they do that to me too ie; pull the i tell u smth but bla bla on fren A/B/C and proceed to tell them(A/B/C) what I told them.

and that is why i hardly tell them things anymore.

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Carmen. — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 12:22:13 -0000

You got me thinking. -_- It sucks when that happens.

Now, I wish I was a man. At least I don`t need to express my feelings.[ Do they? ] Plus, men don`t gossip. Only women. Sigh.

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foreverjas — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 10:36:02 -0000

no matter what people say, i will always support u pink pau!!!

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songjun — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 08:48:21 -0000

tell me la! im ur best secret keeper! hhaha

*chucks tennis balls at u

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foreverjas — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 08:38:36 -0000

haiz. there are so many Btches out there. hate it.mean girls. nasty nasty.

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stranger — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 07:55:23 -0000

talk to strangers who are good listeners.
What?! Tthe rational here is that they do not know your circle of friends, and vice versa! Happy-happy! ;-)

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pinkpau — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 07:40:21 -0000

reallybites : ya havent been on msn much lately =( about your friends who say that stuff, they trust u mah.

jane : right now some coffee would be great O_O

ashleighhh : memangs

thegeekinpink : i love it when people commiserate with me :P

melvin : i would love it if they had anwar come speak

kennysia : im trying not to :(

hanna : hey i heard that too, on jay leno! but he went like "83% of women tell their spouses / boyfriends when you tell them a secret.. but the good news is 100% of the men arent listening anyway." ahahahaha

jonathan : i think im quite lucky to have a handful of people i can turn to who are both good listeners and understand me well :) i hope u find urs too. sometimes all we really need is one person

michelle : do u promise never to blab anything!

wan siong : maybe last time lah, but i believe bloggers nowadays dont do that anymore :) as in post something and then act all shocked when people find out

michael : sigh yeah i know what u mean. unfortunately thats one of the things in this world thats out of our control

naz : dowan lah malas already!!

smashpop : aww sorry to hear that :( catch u on gtalk soon

heartless usagi : haha how can u be a heartless rabbit! rabbits are so cute. and yeah some people just take friendships for granted i suppose.

gaelan : looking around me, i dont think there are many people who are like that? i can name about like 5 and thats it. and i know to steer clear of people like them when it comes to the juicy gossip. and martian is a total eavesdropper!!!!!

artificially : ur my kind of person. eh faster call lah im still waiting for ur steak question

sheon : how about when people dont ask u to keep it secret, but u know it's a delicate issue? do u keep quiet then?

jun : such is human nature i suppose. gotta cover all bases eh

karyn : nooo u know whats the hard part. like when someone u like as a friend asks u a question about something, and then u dont know if you should answer? coz it's not like u dont trust the person or anything, just that it's a sensitive issue. i get that problem all the time, then i feel guilty for withholding information =(

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Karyn — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 06:34:05 -0000

Lots of people in this world are like that. I learnt it the hard way, so now I only tell people what I don't mind the whole world knowing.

It's kinda hard la, sometimes slip of tongue and all that, and that are people whom you can trust to tell, but they accidentally mention it in front of another of their close friend or two, and so on! =(

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Jun — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 05:42:19 -0000

u know wat's scarier? is tht even though u keep mum and stay low-key, ppl will STILL find things to talk about u. wtf??!

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sheon — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 05:39:06 -0000

good listeners are indeed very hard to come by. i have had my share of bad experience with cases of leaked secrets. over the years, i learned what to share, and what not to share.
but for my part, i'd honor my word to keep a secret if it is a secret secret ......

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ArtificiallyTimtam — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 03:47:33 -0000

you see that's why we chocolate biskut types don't talk much and just bathe ourselves in a bath of chocolatte. then when people eat us it makes them feel better and our job is done.

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gaelan — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 02:51:10 -0000

omg i think you just listed every possible scenario that could have happened in this secret-telling business.

anyway i guess we're all guilty about some of those stuff in a way, and it has really made me kinda reflect on such issues. at least you got a good listening ear from martian right? (assumption)

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heartless-usagi — Wed, 15 Aug 2007 23:49:22 -0000

i told u so!!!...is what i wanted to say but i never did XD

huhu i know how u feel.some people =.=' i always wonder,didnt they ever thought that it could be backfired?like u told them x to tell any1 but then told the entire universe about it,and 1 day,when they have problem n told u to just keep it to urself,didnt they ever wonder how it would feel like if u do what they did to u before?

"treat others like u wanna be treated."

how come they never registered this in their brains? =.=

anyways,love ur blog XD

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smashpOp — Wed, 15 Aug 2007 23:40:53 -0000

seriously... after reading your post... i realised that i am actually not the only one with these kinda problems.

currently something is happening around me.. something like ur last paragraph.

would be nice if we can talk about it on msn.. but ur not in my list. hmm