That's a good anology there. I agree, a good conversation reveals, exposes and uncovers. It's why we love to bitch and gossip :p
On another note, I get these mood swings you talk about here. But for me, I just get bored of talking, and start doing something childish with my hands like play around with leftover food or twist a straw or tear a paper cup to smitherins...
ArtificiallyVerbose
· 3 years ago
hmmm... i don't see how bitching and gossiping can count as good conversation in my book. different people different tunes i suppose.
well to reveal, expose and uncover, naturally our outer shell is removed thus leaving the mushy insides free to attack. i suppose we aren't used to that sort of vulnerability so we quickly reattach our shell just as fast as it was discarded.
Calypso
· 3 years ago
The last time I did this, or well at least the last 2 times I did this, I ended up with a really good friend and a boyfriend.
foreverjas
· 3 years ago
aww..i get that too.sometimes. in the middle of a damn nice conversation... i jz shut up. no mood. aikx.
TheRealAnonymous
· 3 years ago
No wonder you said u're a shapeshifter laaaa.......
R-E-L-A-X !!!
Don't take things too seriously in life, or u'll be too uptight to notice all the wonderful small lil' things that are going on around you.
Then again... you're probably just being the drama queen that u are. haha.
director
· 3 years ago
hemm.....sometimes i feel that too,but a convo should not end like dat,it should be unlimited and constant communication....dun worry,ur doing great.....one of the best friendmaker in college,maybe in malaysia also...
pinkpau
· 3 years ago
jon : haha i think you got me wrong. when i said it reveals, i meant it's revealing about the two people in the conversation :)
artificially : yep.
calypso : what, you werent comfortable around them and shut up after a while too? o.O
foreverjas : then you know how it is :)
therealanonymous : haha. dont take what too seriously in life? i believe you missed the point of what i was trying to say.
director : we all have our off days. :)
Calypso
· 3 years ago
Um, nope, I don't normally shut up...its one of my more naive points and so far Ive got pretty good experiences out of it :)
pinkpau
· 3 years ago
i dont understand. you said "the last time you did this". the last time you did what?
MichelleShinyi
· 3 years ago
I think I may have experienced what you're describing, but my reaction is usually delayed. The fatigue doesn't hit me until I'm on my way back home/ I've hung up the phone/ I'm in the middle of dinner with chopsticks mid-way between mouth and bowl. Then all of a sudden, I feel this lurch in my stomach, a sense of anticipation almost bordering on anxiety. Will I be able to have a conversation this great with this particular person ever again? Will he/ she still see me in the same light after all the deep dark secrets I've revealed (the spilling of secrets is not mandatory, I guess, but it occurs in the whole sharing process more often than not)? Will things still be carefree and easy between us? Will there be a sense of constraint hanging over our conversations the next time I see him/ her? GAH. Let's hear it for neuroticism, hey? :) This happens every single time I'm in that transitory phase: when some you know turns into someone you respect/ trust. But these revealing conversation are necessary, if that person is going to burrow that little bit deeper into your life, and mean something more to you than they do now.
Cheers, MichelleShinyi
justakid
· 3 years ago
yeah. i've found myself in dat kinda situation, like those amazing heart-to-hearts with a complete stranger/friend and suddenly i just clam up.
hmm. i guess i'm just vulnerable dat way?? hehe.. or am i the only weirdo?
TheRealAnonymous
· 3 years ago
What i meant to say was... don't think too much. Just go with the flow.
loud
· 3 years ago
I think that's normal. It's like... it's so wonderful that if it's not permanent, it's just too good to linger on much longer.
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On another note, I get these mood swings you talk about here. But for me, I just get bored of talking, and start doing something childish with my hands like play around with leftover food or twist a straw or tear a paper cup to smitherins...
well to reveal, expose and uncover, naturally our outer shell is removed thus leaving the mushy insides free to attack. i suppose we aren't used to that sort of vulnerability so we quickly reattach our shell just as fast as it was discarded.
R-E-L-A-X !!!
Don't take things too seriously in life, or u'll be too uptight to notice all the wonderful small lil' things that are going on around you.
Then again... you're probably just being the drama queen that u are. haha.
artificially : yep.
calypso : what, you werent comfortable around them and shut up after a while too? o.O
foreverjas : then you know how it is :)
therealanonymous : haha. dont take what too seriously in life? i believe you missed the point of what i was trying to say.
director : we all have our off days. :)
The fatigue doesn't hit me until I'm on my way back home/ I've hung up the phone/ I'm in the middle of dinner with chopsticks mid-way between mouth and bowl.
Then all of a sudden, I feel this lurch in my stomach, a sense of anticipation almost bordering on anxiety.
Will I be able to have a conversation this great with this particular person ever again?
Will he/ she still see me in the same light after all the deep dark secrets I've revealed (the spilling of secrets is not mandatory, I guess, but it occurs in the whole sharing process more often than not)?
Will things still be carefree and easy between us? Will there be a sense of constraint hanging over our conversations the next time I see him/ her?
GAH. Let's hear it for neuroticism, hey? :)
This happens every single time I'm in that transitory phase: when some you know turns into someone you respect/ trust. But these revealing conversation are necessary, if that person is going to burrow that little bit deeper into your life, and mean something more to you than they do now.
Cheers,
MichelleShinyi
hmm. i guess i'm just vulnerable dat way?? hehe.. or am i the only weirdo?
We were meant for things far more permanent.