hi, you are right. no fighting doesnt mean your relationship is in good term /good shape. we are human n arent perfect.
i like your entry, gal.
pinkshirtz
· 2 years ago
X) i use to think that all couples will eventually follow a similiar formula for friendship ..... 3 months ... lovey dovey .... 6 months ... first fight .... 12 months ...feel like beaking up ... and then 16 months ... lovey dovey ... and 2 years ... give me some space! Haha .. don't know what follows after that but hopefully good stuff ... !
Fightings good but dun be over possesive. ... X) enjoy....
SzeWei
· 2 years ago
haha. pardon my stupidity. but can I kno what make-up sex means?
*dAwN
· 2 years ago
hmm.. I used to think the same way as you did: if two people were perfect together, they'll never fight because they are supposed to understand each other very well. Well, that sounds like a fairy-tale. But I later came to think that having a fight will enhance your relationship because you'll learn about each other's quirks and what they don't like, etc., and learn to understand them and compromise. ^_^
tw
· 2 years ago
thx for such a useful tips, great entry...
m
· 2 years ago
my boss and his wife fight all the time. I work in the office and almost everytime they meet they would fight. Most of the time little arguments but once in a while proper fights. And they are not shy about it. And yet it is so clear to anyone that they love each other dearly. Have been married over 20 years, have 4 kids together. When they are talking of they other, you can clearly hear that they admire their partner and respect them. They just have a very honest relationship and say exactly what they feel and don't let what's bothering them fester, just let it all out.
missycheerio
· 2 years ago
hey,you know? this is one kick ass entry. its is undeniably true & it did in fact inspire me in some ways. stay happy babe.cheers.
vin
· 2 years ago
ve been a silent reader of urs for a few yrs.
love this entry! =)
foreverjas
· 2 years ago
whoa. you are the best!!!
foreverjas
· 2 years ago
ya. i fight with my bf too. sometimes its jz.. the little stuff tht makes us fight. =( but, its true, tht after that, we both get to understand each other more, and the sweet feeling after the fight. support u pink pau!!!
badduck
· 2 years ago
better to hate for a little while than not care at all. at least you know there is something worth saving.
d'Fish
· 2 years ago
hi there. first time posting comment. very interesting post. I do think fights and arguments in a relationship are only healthy if you can come with a positive solution. You tend to get much closer after that.
No point arguing over small mini things and never ever sleep over an argument without solving it. Make up sex is also bad if the problem is not solved yet.
As a guy, my advise is never give in to a guy for sex if the fight is still not settled.
Sorry guys.. O_o
Waifon
· 2 years ago
after reading your entry i dnt think i can threaten break ups come wht may cos u make an argument or fight with your partner so legible and justifiable!!!
Fight nevermind..it's the process of understanding each other and we'll be stonger than ever!!! wtf how can i ever do that :(:(:( but it's true wht u said, you'll learn so much abt the other person after a fight and we all try to be the better half for each other. i wonder if i throw an ashtray at him, kepala benjol and all, will he still be lusty as ever and give me a good make up shag wtf.
Waifon
· 2 years ago
eh and rose, rose is good. not so good acting and dancing though but it's very enjoyable. if u understand canto, it's better T____________________T u hv to go if u can make it okay i personally enjoyed the show. not as controversial as i thought it would be but good performance nonetheless. i love KK in tht show. hilarious beyond words :)
vvens
· 2 years ago
the bright side of a fight or an arguement is that two will really get closer and understand each othe more. hahaha.
so, i take anything that happens as a good one!
Jon
· 2 years ago
@ SzeWei
To answer your question, we must first break down the phrase into "make up" and "sex"
Make up - applications (powder and liquid substances) used more commonly by females to patch up ugly spots on the face.
Sex - gender
Go figure :p
Porcupine
· 2 years ago
I would prefer to see it as a Ying-Yang thing (pardon the old-Chinese-man-with-long-beard-sitting-on-mountain-top-wisdom) It would occur to me that everything will have its balance. In such a sense, there a loving times and there are disagreeing times. All which are part and parcel of a relationship which I might say spice things up. Face it, if it weren't for arguments, things would be bored as hell yo...
One heck of a good entry though. Makes me wanna look for someone and just argue. (O_o)
kimberlycun
· 2 years ago
the last line would be suffice ;)
julie
· 2 years ago
touche!
Michael
· 2 years ago
ahh...the wisdom of the last sentence XD
Jonathan
· 2 years ago
There weren't any pictures, so traditionally i would scroll all the way down.
I saw the last sentence, i knew i had to read the whole entry
Sarcasm aside, there's always a theory, people are the perfect match when they are nearly opposite in characters.
Imagine, a quiet male, and a quiet female
Imagine a talkative male, and a talkative female
Melancholic + Phlegmatic ! = Choleric + Sanguine
Usually given a funny combination between a couple, it blends it to produce exorbitant loving situations
steven lee
· 2 years ago
OMGWTF your parents read your blog!!!
Anyway makeup-sex means having sex while putting on your make up or making up while having sex, it should be either one of those.
No really it means using sex as a make up tool. Its great because having sex with someone while you're angry make it seems like you're humping the hell out of them.
The tension built up could result in an explosive orgasm.
matian
· 2 years ago
yabba i lust u too. (yabba isn't an actual word u can use on scrabulous, i just wanted to use something cavemany)
aimee
· 2 years ago
HAHAHHAA! i burst out in uncontrollable laughter, scared my dog.
i really should be studying. love this entry!
you quoted chuck palahniuk :D
lishun
· 2 years ago
milo dog?!
Bernard
· 2 years ago
you wrote part of my story too :) excluding make up sex la :D
martian
· 2 years ago
aiya...my speeling so bad
thegeekinpink
· 2 years ago
your very last line reminds me why i drama fight all the time.
Hannah
· 2 years ago
I really cannot agree more with this entry. I dated a fellow debater once, and good god, were the fights The View-worthy or what. It's great to stumble upon posts like this. Fun blogs dosed with wit are so hard to come by. Love it. =)
And something tells me that make-up sex isn't half as fun as the raunchy, real thang.
Cheers. =)
songjun
· 2 years ago
*fights with you
fight fight
Chris
· 2 years ago
lol @ songjun. pls behave urself in public view :P
songjun
· 2 years ago
chris : shush
she slammed the door at me once during a big fight haha
Michelle
· 2 years ago
Yeah, screaming and hurling spitfires at my sis really made us closer than ever.
No relationship is perfect. Even if it is with your family.
fern
· 2 years ago
one nice long entry and people are "fighting" about the last line xD
I disagree with this entry because i dated a fighter and didn't work out too well :( but am impressed with your point of view. can't wait for martian vs anyone entries :P
pinkpau
· 2 years ago
ria : most welcome :D *huggles
anonymous : glad u did :)
pinkshirtz : it shouldnt have to be like that if you both mutually work at keeping things from going stale
sze wei : it means fighting and then making up and then having sex immediately after
dawn : exactly! it's all just a very nice fairytale. and you wouldnt understand each other as much as if you go through some disagreements here and there
tw : you're welcome!
m : wow. that is really, really cool. i have a lot to learn when it comes to that not letting what's bothering me fester. thanks for this story :) it is very encouraging.
missycheerio : aww glad it helped. i went through a lot of clarity too, writing this post.
vin : dont be silent!!
foreverjas : sigh it's always the little things isnt it!
badduck : that's true :)
shakyfish : haha shakyfish... i believe i spoke to you on the phone the other day about your ads. and yes you're right about needing the positive solution. a conclusion is always necessary to eliminate anymore doubt or insecurity
waifon : eh dont throw ashtray at him lah hahaha so poor thing! aiyah i would love to go for Rose Rose also but dont think i can make it oredi =( SIGH.
vvens : sigh you're so optimistic! it took me so long to finally start appreciating fights for the good it brings.
porcupine : haha yes, part and parcel, that's exactly it. no lah i wouldnt say it would be boring without fights. sometimes fight too much also boring. that's not good too.
kimberlycun : :P
julie : *bow
michael : with experience comes wisdom!
jon : oh, sanguines and cholerics are a match??? haha isnt that cool !!! that's me and martian respectively :D actually, i dont really know about this whole opposites are the best for you kinda thing. you cant be of complete polar opposites, i think. but hmm i am actually very attracted to the quieter types. HMM.
steven lee : ooh yeah tell me about it
martian : baby you cannot spell lah. and you only wanna comment on my blog when the post is about you -____-
aimee : chuck palahniuk writes some great stuff. i cant help but be awed
lishun : er yeah heehee *sheepish
bernard : EXCLUDING????
thegeekinpink : gasp thou art manipulative
hannah : you dated a fellow debater!!!!!! HAHAHAHA!!!! that is so kick ass. i would so love to do that one day just to see how things go hahahahaha can you imagine ending up on opposing teams hahahhaa
songjun : what are you talking about! we never even fight!
chris : haih he cant help it wan lah.. have to make a fool out of himself every now and then
michelle : hey yeah this post applies to family too doesnt it!
fern : i know what you mean.. i didnt like all this fighting very much either at the start of this relationship. but that's cos i always tried to avoid all the fighting and ended up feeling very victimized. so sometimes you gotta stand your ground too :) if he can get his point across, then so can you. *hugs
iamthewitch
· 2 years ago
I love this entry... it really does speak for me very much. I'm glad that someone experiences the same thing, and that I'm not weird. :) Thank you for sharing this amusing entry and for inspiring. :)
Waifon
· 2 years ago
eh u like chuck palahniuk issit! u hv to read Diary, Choke, Invisible Monsters, Lullaby and Rant. Besides Fight Club of course. Read most of his books but it was so depressing and twisted to a certain degree and i guess tht's all i can take so i stopped. many stopped at the first book. okay maybe second, diary hahah cos it get's mundane (or so i heard) cos his minimalistic writing style is rather predictable and it gets boring but i did enjoy his stories. okay la maybe u dnt really like CP hahah sorry for the long comment. fight club was made a movie hence the popularity but i do think his other works are worth a mention as well. :) and i wont throw ashtray la im so lemah lembut how can!
songjun
· 2 years ago
what never fight! got! but quite rare haha
sheon
· 2 years ago
there were only sex, appreciation sex, romantic sex, sex sex... never make-up sex. coz i never had full blown fight with my gf before. then she dumped me for another guy who she has fights after fights with...and she says she's more appreciative of that kinda of relationship.......i was like.....Huh? maybe she likes make-up sex.......but......wtf.......havent spoken to her for years, and not keen to......ever.
baffled
· 2 years ago
Unfortunate as this may sound, I am still naive in many respects. The last line to me is an implication of pre-marital sex. Which to me, has often been discussed with pros and cons. Nevertheless the question I'm really getting at is whether this is actually done by most Malaysian young adults/teenagers before marriage or would this be a minority group? Has abstinence become an often said but obsolete and unpractical ideal? :) nice entry!
TheRealAnonymous
· 2 years ago
Fighting sometimes does bring a couple closer. But not all fights end up with more good than bad.
I personally prefer avoiding fights, especially unnecessary ones... those that ends up spoiling both your moods over nothing. =p
Make-Up Sex Sifu
· 2 years ago
"sze wei : it means fighting and then making up and then having sex immediately after"
No I disagree with your methods... It's supposed to be having sex with MAKE UP on.... oh... turns me on.
Make-Up Sex Sifu
· 2 years ago
aiya shit.... too late my comment. It seems that Jon and Steven lee are two other masters in this art as well
songjun
· 2 years ago
seems to me your risque last line has attracted many an attention :P
especially from Chris right HAHA
Doreen
· 2 years ago
a post that speaks for most of us! :) when i fight with my significant other, i'd take out my sim card from my handphone and hide my sim card on top of my wardrobe cupboard, just so i don't touch my phone to much hoping to get make-up calls after fights....... -_______- which usually doesn't work cos at the end of the day, i'll be dying to hear his voice.
love is a funny thing. yeh. T_T
alea
· 2 years ago
pfft. just like me and my ex.
yes, make up sex do rocks xD
entwined
· 2 years ago
one advice i always adhere to when my bf and i fight is that we should never go to sleep without resolving the issue at hand firs. :)
usually, i don't like fights though, because it always leaves me feeling insecure, even though we have made up after that. i believe that fights are needed to solve major problems and once all potential problems in a relationship has been fought about (and solved), a couple should not have any major screamfest any more. :P so far, it seems to hold true for my relationship. the first 1.5 year was rocky, but now it's all very harmonious. :) *touch wood*
and please do post about martian vs anyone else arguments! :D
chris
· 2 years ago
songjun: you crazy ah! first imagine u got fight with pinkiepau, dream on la hoho wtf and now u think i'm interested in a one liner punch line that looked like it meant to attract the attention of horny guys!
wait, i did somehow got attracted to it didn't i? =.=; die la songjun, now everyone know we're both horny bastards :(
pinkpau: i know what u mean, i really do. after all, we had something together too once upon a time. hoho lol
songjun
· 2 years ago
lol chris im not the horny bastard! YOU are :P I'm just horny.
haha
Jonathan
· 2 years ago
Cholerics don't necessarily match up with Sanguine. It is the other mix throw into it. Chances are he is a Melancholic/Phlegmatic + Choleric to match up with your socializing and outgoing nature.
You can't imagine being together with another guy that will be talking when you are talking right. That'll be like...head on collision of trains. HMM
SzeWei
· 2 years ago
su ann : hahaha. it must be really sweeet :) :)
SzeWei
· 2 years ago
So what you guys meant is that make-up sex are like make-up (applications) for flaws in the relationship? hahahah
tze
· 2 years ago
nonsense la fight what fight la just silent treatment all the way la wtf
Albert Ng
· 2 years ago
Yeah it's like building muscle, you gotta strain it for it to grow. Or something like that.
Speaking of argument, I'd wanna pick your brain someday.
*makes mental note to draw ashtrays closer to my side of the table*
abby
· 1 year ago
MAKE UP SEX? haha. dude, im linking u under my freq visited k? rawk on xoxo
All Comments
you are right. no fighting doesnt mean your relationship is in good term /good shape. we are human n arent perfect.
i like your entry, gal.
Fightings good but dun be over possesive. ... X) enjoy....
love this entry! =)
No point arguing over small mini things and never ever sleep over an argument without solving it. Make up sex is also bad if the problem is not solved yet.
As a guy, my advise is never give in to a guy for sex if the fight is still not settled.
Sorry guys.. O_o
Fight nevermind..it's the process of understanding each other and we'll be stonger than ever!!! wtf how can i ever do that :(:(:( but it's true wht u said, you'll learn so much abt the other person after a fight and we all try to be the better half for each other. i wonder if i throw an ashtray at him, kepala benjol and all, will he still be lusty as ever and give me a good make up shag wtf.
so, i take anything that happens as a good one!
To answer your question, we must first break down the phrase into "make up" and "sex"
Make up - applications (powder and liquid substances) used more commonly by females to patch up ugly spots on the face.
Sex - gender
Go figure :p
It would occur to me that everything will have its balance.
In such a sense, there a loving times and there are disagreeing times.
All which are part and parcel of a relationship which I might say spice things up.
Face it, if it weren't for arguments, things would be bored as hell yo...
One heck of a good entry though. Makes me wanna look for someone and just argue. (O_o)
I saw the last sentence, i knew i had to read the whole entry
Sarcasm aside, there's always a theory, people are the perfect match when they are nearly opposite in characters.
Imagine, a quiet male, and a quiet female
Imagine a talkative male, and a talkative female
Melancholic + Phlegmatic ! = Choleric + Sanguine
Usually given a funny combination between a couple, it blends it to produce exorbitant loving situations
Anyway makeup-sex means having sex while putting on your make up or making up while having sex, it should be either one of those.
No really it means using sex as a make up tool. Its great because having sex with someone while you're angry make it seems like you're humping the hell out of them.
The tension built up could result in an explosive orgasm.
i really should be studying. love this entry!
you quoted chuck palahniuk :D
And something tells me that make-up sex isn't half as fun as the raunchy, real thang.
Cheers. =)
fight fight
she slammed the door at me once during a big fight haha
No relationship is perfect. Even if it is with your family.
I disagree with this entry because i dated a fighter and didn't work out too well :( but am impressed with your point of view. can't wait for martian vs anyone entries :P
anonymous : glad u did :)
pinkshirtz : it shouldnt have to be like that if you both mutually work at keeping things from going stale
sze wei : it means fighting and then making up and then having sex immediately after
dawn : exactly! it's all just a very nice fairytale. and you wouldnt understand each other as much as if you go through some disagreements here and there
tw : you're welcome!
m : wow. that is really, really cool. i have a lot to learn when it comes to that not letting what's bothering me fester. thanks for this story :) it is very encouraging.
missycheerio : aww glad it helped. i went through a lot of clarity too, writing this post.
vin : dont be silent!!
foreverjas : sigh it's always the little things isnt it!
badduck : that's true :)
shakyfish : haha shakyfish... i believe i spoke to you on the phone the other day about your ads. and yes you're right about needing the positive solution. a conclusion is always necessary to eliminate anymore doubt or insecurity
waifon : eh dont throw ashtray at him lah hahaha so poor thing! aiyah i would love to go for Rose Rose also but dont think i can make it oredi =( SIGH.
vvens : sigh you're so optimistic! it took me so long to finally start appreciating fights for the good it brings.
porcupine : haha yes, part and parcel, that's exactly it. no lah i wouldnt say it would be boring without fights. sometimes fight too much also boring. that's not good too.
kimberlycun : :P
julie : *bow
michael : with experience comes wisdom!
jon : oh, sanguines and cholerics are a match??? haha isnt that cool !!! that's me and martian respectively :D actually, i dont really know about this whole opposites are the best for you kinda thing. you cant be of complete polar opposites, i think. but hmm i am actually very attracted to the quieter types. HMM.
steven lee : ooh yeah tell me about it
martian : baby you cannot spell lah. and you only wanna comment on my blog when the post is about you -____-
aimee : chuck palahniuk writes some great stuff. i cant help but be awed
lishun : er yeah heehee *sheepish
bernard : EXCLUDING????
thegeekinpink : gasp thou art manipulative
hannah : you dated a fellow debater!!!!!! HAHAHAHA!!!! that is so kick ass. i would so love to do that one day just to see how things go hahahahaha can you imagine ending up on opposing teams hahahhaa
songjun : what are you talking about! we never even fight!
chris : haih he cant help it wan lah.. have to make a fool out of himself every now and then
michelle : hey yeah this post applies to family too doesnt it!
fern : i know what you mean.. i didnt like all this fighting very much either at the start of this relationship. but that's cos i always tried to avoid all the fighting and ended up feeling very victimized. so sometimes you gotta stand your ground too :) if he can get his point across, then so can you. *hugs
But not all fights end up with more good than bad.
I personally prefer avoiding fights, especially unnecessary ones... those that ends up spoiling both your moods over nothing. =p
No I disagree with your methods... It's supposed to be having sex with MAKE UP on.... oh... turns me on.
especially from Chris right HAHA
love is a funny thing. yeh. T_T
yes, make up sex do rocks xD
usually, i don't like fights though, because it always leaves me feeling insecure, even though we have made up after that. i believe that fights are needed to solve major problems and once all potential problems in a relationship has been fought about (and solved), a couple should not have any major screamfest any more. :P so far, it seems to hold true for my relationship. the first 1.5 year was rocky, but now it's all very harmonious. :) *touch wood*
and please do post about martian vs anyone else arguments! :D
wait, i did somehow got attracted to it didn't i? =.=; die la songjun, now everyone know we're both horny bastards :(
pinkpau: i know what u mean, i really do. after all, we had something together too once upon a time. hoho lol
haha
You can't imagine being together with another guy that will be talking when you are talking right. That'll be like...head on collision of trains.
HMM
Speaking of argument, I'd wanna pick your brain someday.
*makes mental note to draw ashtrays closer to my side of the table*
dude, im linking u under my freq visited k?
rawk on
xoxo