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abby — Fri, 11 Jan 2008 06:37:39 -0000

MAKE UP SEX? haha.
dude, im linking u under my freq visited k?
rawk on
xoxo

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Albert Ng — Sat, 10 Nov 2007 19:54:45 -0000

Yeah it's like building muscle, you gotta strain it for it to grow. Or something like that.

Speaking of argument, I'd wanna pick your brain someday.

*makes mental note to draw ashtrays closer to my side of the table*

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tze — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 08:09:28 -0000

nonsense la fight what fight la just silent treatment all the way la wtf

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SzeWei — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 00:13:29 -0000

So what you guys meant is that make-up sex are like make-up (applications) for flaws in the relationship? hahahah

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SzeWei — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 00:06:55 -0000

su ann : hahaha. it must be really sweeet :) :)

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Jonathan — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 10:54:30 -0000

Cholerics don't necessarily match up with Sanguine. It is the other mix throw into it. Chances are he is a Melancholic/Phlegmatic + Choleric to match up with your socializing and outgoing nature.

You can't imagine being together with another guy that will be talking when you are talking right. That'll be like...head on collision of trains.
HMM

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songjun — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 09:55:37 -0000

lol chris im not the horny bastard! YOU are :P I'm just horny.

haha

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chris — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 06:52:31 -0000

songjun: you crazy ah! first imagine u got fight with pinkiepau, dream on la hoho wtf and now u think i'm interested in a one liner punch line that looked like it meant to attract the attention of horny guys!

wait, i did somehow got attracted to it didn't i? =.=; die la songjun, now everyone know we're both horny bastards :(

pinkpau: i know what u mean, i really do. after all, we had something together too once upon a time. hoho lol

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entwined — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 05:38:47 -0000

one advice i always adhere to when my bf and i fight is that we should never go to sleep without resolving the issue at hand firs. :)

usually, i don't like fights though, because it always leaves me feeling insecure, even though we have made up after that. i believe that fights are needed to solve major problems and once all potential problems in a relationship has been fought about (and solved), a couple should not have any major screamfest any more. :P so far, it seems to hold true for my relationship. the first 1.5 year was rocky, but now it's all very harmonious. :) *touch wood*

and please do post about martian vs anyone else arguments! :D

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alea — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 04:34:27 -0000

pfft. just like me and my ex.

yes, make up sex do rocks xD

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Doreen — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 14:30:36 -0000

a post that speaks for most of us! :) when i fight with my significant other, i'd take out my sim card from my handphone and hide my sim card on top of my wardrobe cupboard, just so i don't touch my phone to much hoping to get make-up calls after fights....... -_______- which usually doesn't work cos at the end of the day, i'll be dying to hear his voice.

love is a funny thing. yeh. T_T

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songjun — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 09:37:10 -0000

seems to me your risque last line has attracted many an attention :P

especially from Chris right HAHA

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Make-Up Sex Sifu — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 08:47:27 -0000

aiya shit.... too late my comment. It seems that Jon and Steven lee are two other masters in this art as well

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Make-Up Sex Sifu — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 08:45:23 -0000

"sze wei : it means fighting and then making up and then having sex immediately after"

No I disagree with your methods... It's supposed to be having sex with MAKE UP on.... oh... turns me on.

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TheRealAnonymous — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 06:41:51 -0000

Fighting sometimes does bring a couple closer.
But not all fights end up with more good than bad.

I personally prefer avoiding fights, especially unnecessary ones... those that ends up spoiling both your moods over nothing. =p

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baffled — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:32:41 -0000

Unfortunate as this may sound, I am still naive in many respects. The last line to me is an implication of pre-marital sex. Which to me, has often been discussed with pros and cons. Nevertheless the question I'm really getting at is whether this is actually done by most Malaysian young adults/teenagers before marriage or would this be a minority group? Has abstinence become an often said but obsolete and unpractical ideal? :) nice entry!

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sheon — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:11:22 -0000

there were only sex, appreciation sex, romantic sex, sex sex... never make-up sex. coz i never had full blown fight with my gf before. then she dumped me for another guy who she has fights after fights with...and she says she's more appreciative of that kinda of relationship.......i was like.....Huh? maybe she likes make-up sex.......but......wtf.......havent spoken to her for years, and not keen to......ever.

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songjun — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 23:03:52 -0000

what never fight! got! but quite rare haha

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Waifon — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 22:44:46 -0000

eh u like chuck palahniuk issit! u hv to read Diary, Choke, Invisible Monsters, Lullaby and Rant. Besides Fight Club of course. Read most of his books but it was so depressing and twisted to a certain degree and i guess tht's all i can take so i stopped. many stopped at the first book. okay maybe second, diary hahah cos it get's mundane (or so i heard) cos his minimalistic writing style is rather predictable and it gets boring but i did enjoy his stories. okay la maybe u dnt really like CP hahah sorry for the long comment. fight club was made a movie hence the popularity but i do think his other works are worth a mention as well. :) and i wont throw ashtray la im so lemah lembut how can!

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iamthewitch — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 21:57:47 -0000

I love this entry... it really does speak for me very much. I'm glad that someone experiences the same thing, and that I'm not weird. :) Thank you for sharing this amusing entry and for inspiring. :)

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pinkpau — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 20:54:44 -0000

ria : most welcome :D *huggles

anonymous : glad u did :)

pinkshirtz : it shouldnt have to be like that if you both mutually work at keeping things from going stale

sze wei : it means fighting and then making up and then having sex immediately after

dawn : exactly! it's all just a very nice fairytale. and you wouldnt understand each other as much as if you go through some disagreements here and there

tw : you're welcome!

m : wow. that is really, really cool. i have a lot to learn when it comes to that not letting what's bothering me fester. thanks for this story :) it is very encouraging.

missycheerio : aww glad it helped. i went through a lot of clarity too, writing this post.

vin : dont be silent!!

foreverjas : sigh it's always the little things isnt it!

badduck : that's true :)

shakyfish : haha shakyfish... i believe i spoke to you on the phone the other day about your ads. and yes you're right about needing the positive solution. a conclusion is always necessary to eliminate anymore doubt or insecurity

waifon : eh dont throw ashtray at him lah hahaha so poor thing! aiyah i would love to go for Rose Rose also but dont think i can make it oredi =( SIGH.

vvens : sigh you're so optimistic! it took me so long to finally start appreciating fights for the good it brings.

porcupine : haha yes, part and parcel, that's exactly it. no lah i wouldnt say it would be boring without fights. sometimes fight too much also boring. that's not good too.

kimberlycun : :P

julie : *bow

michael : with experience comes wisdom!

jon : oh, sanguines and cholerics are a match??? haha isnt that cool !!! that's me and martian respectively :D actually, i dont really know about this whole opposites are the best for you kinda thing. you cant be of complete polar opposites, i think. but hmm i am actually very attracted to the quieter types. HMM.

steven lee : ooh yeah tell me about it

martian : baby you cannot spell lah. and you only wanna comment on my blog when the post is about you -____-

aimee : chuck palahniuk writes some great stuff. i cant help but be awed

lishun : er yeah heehee *sheepish

bernard : EXCLUDING????

thegeekinpink : gasp thou art manipulative

hannah : you dated a fellow debater!!!!!! HAHAHAHA!!!! that is so kick ass. i would so love to do that one day just to see how things go hahahahaha can you imagine ending up on opposing teams hahahhaa

songjun : what are you talking about! we never even fight!

chris : haih he cant help it wan lah.. have to make a fool out of himself every now and then

michelle : hey yeah this post applies to family too doesnt it!

fern : i know what you mean.. i didnt like all this fighting very much either at the start of this relationship. but that's cos i always tried to avoid all the fighting and ended up feeling very victimized. so sometimes you gotta stand your ground too :) if he can get his point across, then so can you. *hugs

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fern — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 20:36:21 -0000

one nice long entry and people are "fighting" about the last line xD

I disagree with this entry because i dated a fighter and didn't work out too well :( but am impressed with your point of view. can't wait for martian vs anyone entries :P

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Michelle — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 18:30:48 -0000

Yeah, screaming and hurling spitfires at my sis really made us closer than ever.

No relationship is perfect. Even if it is with your family.

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songjun — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 17:23:10 -0000

chris : shush

she slammed the door at me once during a big fight haha

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Chris — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 15:39:08 -0000

lol @ songjun. pls behave urself in public view :P