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Silas.L — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 04:20:14 -0000

This a 1st for me. It's hard cos i've always refused to leave comments in support of ppl's blogs (no, i'm not a blogger) even though i do read voraciously. But in ur case i've found smething that i cld relate to. It's meaningful & this counts for smething when all else fails. Thus, 5 yrs & no comments for Xiaxue (even though i'm singaporean) nor Dawn, Arrisa & all e rest i cld name. Truth & Sincerity transcends Hype. Thank u for Mking My Day.

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zewt — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:27:06 -0000

when you look across the aisle to the guy on the other side before the start of a premier... u dont smile? ;)

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Linora Low — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 07:52:08 -0000

Awwww Su... that was sweet and I appreciated that post.. i believe in the whole love is giving yourself entirely.. and I also believe in unconditional love (which is so hard to come by save for the Man up above). But yeah.. i'm glad things are working out so nicely for the two of you and it really puts a smile to my face when i see friend of mine who are having a solid relaitonship with their other half. :) and keep on the loving.

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zewt — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 11:34:57 -0000

i think in acceptance... you dont feel like you're giving up on something...

when you compromise... you need to make sacrifice... when you accept... u will not feel the sacrifice. no?

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May — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 15:29:31 -0000

ahhh, u made me jealous again.
you;re like my idol for perfect relationship!

I envy you for being so brave to admit all the bad things that happened in a relationship.

It's really nice.
Happy anniversary and keep counting the numbers.
=)

p/s: I dunno why I always comment when you're very happy and in love.hahaha.

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nickchhan — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 12:40:29 -0000

This post is so schweet. Martian and you grow together at every level, that's something I believe is very important. The both of you got the stuff! =)

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Mon, 07 Jul 2008 10:45:58 -0000

thanks for writing this su ann! thought that my relationship is dire and less carefree like yours, but i've come to realise that every couple has its own issues to overcome - some quite similar to others! it really helps!

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ida — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 10:14:05 -0000

Very sweet Su-ann..May u n Martian be eternally each other's.

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zefi — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 09:01:22 -0000

"i’ve always believed that love, essentially, is loving the other person more than you love yourself; putting their happiness before your own"

Love is loving the other person more than you love yourself? Huh?

Sounds like a weird statement of definition to me. I think you just wrote the definition for the word selflessness

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Yang — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 01:26:21 -0000

aaa, i just missed your long long reply-comment-comment. nvm la, anyway, that was real sugary! XD sweetttttttt~~~ hmm, dunno why this reminds me of the new ice cream-strawberry kisses, u might wanna try it XD

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Kevin — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 18:34:36 -0000

Hahaha nolaa stupid, somehow just got reminded of the quote from the movie independence day =P where the president was saying this before everyone goes up and kamikazed against the aliens

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pinkpau — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 16:28:44 -0000

ben : gasp you have fallen over to the dark side

reallybites : like what!! *wiggles

zewt : hmm! sometimes acceptance is also compromise, yes?

kiasu andrew : androo why u so kiasu! ppl got plurk then u also want plurk!

artificially : update oredi lah!

michelle : ooooooooh :D tell , tell !

ym : :D

kevin : the WORLD??? you bloody americans... think that you rule the world issit!! now ur independence day has to be the rest of the world's too, issitt!!

nat : WOW. your boyfriend sounds like one VERY VERY amazing person :) i'm so happy for you. keep me posted if you do come and live in NY :D we will hang out!!

ping : thank u! :)

ah lost : thank u too! :)

reallybites : yalar how u know :( today he just said that it's not fair cos he dont have the crying weapon. hehe yalor we celebrate together with the US mah!

kei : hahaha you should be happy for them mah :D cos they so blissfully in love!

sss : thank u!

allen g : yup it's true what you say that you need some bad times to appreciate the good :)

chm : hahaha you sound like you're happier than me

rach : thank u! i love the flowers too!

ria : we both thank u, ria dear :)

nyrac : i hope so too :))

vvens : haih if not! :D

chimpanzee : thank you :) that is very kind

sheon : eh but not too bitter ok... :\

anonymous : haha i dont get sorries in a very cute way unfortunately... :| but i get what you mean :)

ren : i will !!

quin : thank u! :)

abby : thank u too! :)

michellesy : nah it wasnt lets hold hands at all :P not even a bit. haha. thank u my dear :)

yuh hui : no i didnt! when i saw the last commenter's name on martian's computer, i thought he left that comment. and i was asking him why he did that and he was so confused.. haha. thanks for the well wishes yuhhui!

foreverjas : hope so!

erisha : i totally agree bout the fighting :) hmm dont worry the bug looks like it's been fixed!

pinkshirtz : oh you have no idea :) hehe thank u!

fern : thank u!! :)

cindy : you are most welcome. glad to have helped somehow :)

huai bin : thank u hb :)

thisguy : i thought the same thing, but unfortunately the work is in my old computer and i dont have it here :( sigh. forever lost.

miss p : we try to be! hehe

kreazi : hehehe gggggggg! i like how you used the apostrophes instead.. :D

iamdoryfish : it's red roses with some filler flowers here and there - pink carnations and berries!

hansheng : thank u :)

kimmy : i'm most prolly going to be studying political science, economics and international studies :) i did exupery in college for an english course - academic writing to be precise. the little prince is a fantastic story!

estherbobester : hahaha zomg so cute your bf!

reiko : i hope you're right :)

na : i actually do believe that we have soulmates out there. many soulmates, all of whom are very right for us, but there's always that one person who is the MOST right for us. thank you so much for your well wishes :)

shereen : thank u!!

jun : YES MS MARY. hahahhaa

martian : just now when i went in to hug you, you ignored me :(

tiktsin : make something! a card, a scrapbook, a bookmark.. :D

yu : long story ;) i wrote the story on my blog before though

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yu — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 13:39:56 -0000

so sweet........happy anniversary.......how u actually get to know martian??sounds like a perfect match....

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TikTsin — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 13:29:32 -0000

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thats so sweettttttttttttttttttttttttttt :DDDDDDDDDDD

meh my anniversary is coming too >.<" gotta work those creative juices :D wanna hit the one year mark with a bit of a bang :D

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martian — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 12:45:39 -0000

i love you too baby. thanks for such a sweet blog.

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Jun — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 12:32:56 -0000

hehe was that one of ms mary's assignments? ;p

oh, another thing: u know u love him on a whole new level when u start treating his family like urs ;)

i see more than just fireworks on YOUR july 4th *hehe*

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shereen — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 09:18:54 -0000

so sss-wwweet

HapPie Anniversary!

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na — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 08:47:19 -0000

has it only been 2 yrs? it somehow seems longer from all those stories on your blog.

there are days when i cant help but think that we are just so wrong for each other.

oh yes, i do agree so much with this statement, but truly there probably isnt someone out there who is "right" for us, is there?

i sometimes think about it, and some theory evolved, like, it's not how right or wrong the person is for you, it's probably how much you two are able to grow together to accomodate each other, some people can only stay friends, others might progress on to the stage of relationships but eventually move to a point where it has to end, and the best kind turns into a long lasting marriage and all : D

but despite the cynic that i am, there's this fairytale longing that a couple out there proves all my doubts wrong, so i wish you and martian all the best, and stay happy together.

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Reiko — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 07:07:01 -0000

Happy Anniversary~

People tend to forget what others did for you when you get angry or upset or any negative feelings that appears...

But do believe him and stay strong... Don't ever resist to listen and to believe... Everything turn out to be good...

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estherbobester — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 06:43:12 -0000

happy belated anniversary =)

indeed fights happen very often in relationships. my bf has the best tactic to throw me off my game when i'm complaining/picking a fight ('last time you used to surprise me all the time', 'you never remember to wish me on monthaversaries anymore', 'you only love me for my butt', etc) and he'll end it all with, 'but i really wuv you.'

worse still can hear the puppy face even over the phone -.-

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Kimmy — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 03:33:55 -0000

I really love the way you write! You really managed to capture the essence of a relationship in a few paragraphs. What are you studying at Colombia btw, if you don't mind me asking? Coz if you studied Exupery in college, you obviously did Literature. And with your flair for writing, it would be a pity if you didn't study English, Journalism, etc etc.

I did Exupery as well except I didn't do The Little Prince. I studied Wind, Sand and Stars instead which was very good. But I'm going to go buy The Little Prince soon because everyone is telling me what a good book it is! :)

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hansheng — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 02:59:50 -0000

Happy anniversary. i loved the way you captured the emotions of your relationship. its something, i think, most of us can relate to. =)

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iamdoryfish — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 02:28:57 -0000

Awww..that is so sweet! :D Very nice flowers, combination of roses..and?? My bf does not give my flowers for a long while. sigh. but im happy for you. Happy anniversary!

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iamdoryfish — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 02:27:17 -0000

Awww, that was so sweet.the flowers look very nice, combination of roses...and?? :D happy anniversary to you both!

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kreazi — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 00:21:27 -0000

Happy Anniverysary to u both :) This is so sweet and touchin'. My hubby and I share a love-hate relationship like this too... when everythin' is fine n sweet, I just feel like the happiest person on earth but when we're quarrelin', i really hate him to the core.. only to kesal the evil thots i have in mind later after we've made up... eishhhh.. so difficult to type when the "jee" on my keyboard has flattened, waitin' to be repaired.. kakakakaka...