DISQUS

nickie · 1 year ago

awww.. very touching, my lady! but dont cry.. seeing you cry makes me wanna cry too. tell your dad u're sorry, i'm sure he'll understand. but make sure u thought of this next time before you might do anythg to hurt his feelings. :) *hugggsss*

now i feel like going out to walmart to get some oreos too... :/

JC · 1 year ago

i am speechless

that was truly touching

Waifon · 1 year ago

paupie, if i know who ur dad was, i would have called him immediately and ask him not to eat anything till u come back cos u have half a cookie for him. lemau or not haha :) *hugs* haih, unconditional love T_T

Jemima · 1 year ago

That half oreo will be the best cookie your dad has ever tasted in his entire life.

Your dad's love for you is a gift from God.. & so is your love for him.

Cheerio!

reallybites · 1 year ago

very very nice.

angeliCassie · 1 year ago

hey =)

am a daily reader of your blog and i think this is the first time i'm commenting..i really like the video cause i could connect to it.hehe i'm a daddy's girl too..and most of the things you said..abt how much your dad loves you and how he understands you and would meet you needs..it kinda reminded me of my dad too.hehe.

what an Oreo moment.and keep blogging!

Cassie

fern · 1 year ago

x) i bet that after he sees this, he'll convert into a cookie fan

megan · 1 year ago

aiyoh, got me crying su ann.

xo

yuhhui · 1 year ago

Hey, it's a very sincere video. Really a good one! I can totally relate to how you feel. I'm not exactly a good daughter too for always spending his money. Sigh.. Parents.. they're just always giving and we're always recieving. Anyway, enjoy your time with your dad ! I'm sure he will be touched when he sees the vide! =) Take care!


P/s : the bug's here again. lol.

Liz · 1 year ago

pinkpau, this was so moving i almost cried when i watched it :( u really voiced out what a lot of us daughters are feeling, but would never voice out publicly ...

*touched*

candyclarie · 1 year ago

Touching video there. I'm sure you're still his lucky charm deep inside his heart even though he's mad at you. ^^

Cheers.

dawn_1o9 · 1 year ago

oh gee.. Tears welled up watching your video.. I just have a weakness... Whenever I see someone cry, I want to cry too. But your video is very touching and sweet. I'm sure that your dad will still love you even though you've been away from him, and is planning to go further away.

sha · 1 year ago

hey suann, im at work so cant play this vid =) but u look so pretty with ur new hairstyle!!

christmas · 1 year ago

first time commenting too..

that was really heartrending. thanks for sharing your special moment with us :)

parents always love their kids unconditionally, and a lot of times we feel that we haven't done enough to appreciate them or to 'repay' them. but we're still young and there's still lots of opportunities for us to show and express our love, and a lot of times when we mature we'll find that their greatest happiness is for us to be happy and comfortable in our lives. a lot of times we can't live up to their expectations but like you said, they accept and love us for who we are. god manifests himself through love; it's up to us to truly find out how we can repay their love for us. but dont worry, we'll eventually find it. there are times when we're lost and feel undeserving, but if the lord could die for us, who r we to doubt the power of love? acknowledge that you're worthy and treat every kindness as a loan. pay it forward, pass it on, and don't forget to pass it back :)

*hugs*

KY · 1 year ago

why you so emo!

can you also make a video on how you're always late and you're very sad about it? thanks :D

val · 1 year ago

hey i recently started reading your blog and rather enjoy most of your posts but this particular video didn't really go down well with me. just thought it's a little too private. and if it's meant to be some advert for oreo, it isn't really relevant right? the way you tried to link the two seems a bit of a stretch.

sarah · 1 year ago

hey :)
this is a very touching video, and it truly explains what many of us feel nowadays. we are always running off to be with our friends, and in the end our parents are always left in the lurch. but anyway i hope your dad enjoys your 'last cookie'. and good luck, don't forget to talk to him and tell him how much you love him! :)

kimberlycun · 1 year ago

eh u got whole tube of oreos. give him one instead of half lah!!!

Anonymous · 1 year ago

cheer up. it's not too late yet.
i was with my friend on the day my dad passed away. i did not see him for the very last time. deep in me i never forgave myself.
start loving your dad from this very moment. =)

grace · 1 year ago

su ann please don't cry i am just watching 2 minutes of it and u make me sad too..
don't worry dads are always the ones hu nvr show emotions to us but they are the one hu really loves us the most.

The trouble with Asians I think is we feel awkward telling how we love our dad.
I think with this video clip he will be totally touched =)

samantha · 1 year ago

hey u :( it's okay.

missypeipei · 1 year ago

so touching...bt dun cry=) Cheer~! big girl dun cry.......!

Michelle · 1 year ago

You inspired me to write a post about OREOS! Haha. =D

kalo · 1 year ago

hey su ann, really touching vid :( made me almost cry too.

seowqj · 1 year ago

take care.

sweatlee · 1 year ago

dont cry T______T talk to you later ok? :) cause wanna complain about firefly wtf

k0k · 1 year ago

yer, lou hong d.

but I bet your dad's gonna eat it anyway, just to make you happy :)

if he won't, ground it up and mix it in his morning coffee xD

Carol · 1 year ago

that was heartfelt *hugs*
and the world should have more sweet souls like you =)

Ann Jie · 1 year ago

hey pau. the fact that you are actually thinking all this just shows... you're innately a good daughter. ;D if i knew you in real life I would call you right away. i'm thinking about MY own relationship with my parents right now...

Emily · 1 year ago

T________________________T
i cried. wtf.
from now on i am gonna treat my dad better. :(

He might not be a good husband, but i know he's trying his best to be a good dad to his sons and daughters.
T_________T


ps: is ur surname Pau? lol

skyler · 1 year ago

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww pinkypau don't cry I give you hug

entwined · 1 year ago

:( i bet your dad would be an oreo fan from now onwards. *hugs*

(you look damn pretty even at 4 am....!!!)

carolyong · 1 year ago

pinkpau su ann TT that was so touching and i totally understand how you feel TT it is so brave of you to put up a video as personal as that... it brought tears to my eyes T.T sure...we're not always the best daughters... but the love of our fathers is so unconditional TT *hugs* on a happier note i look fwd to finally meeting you this Sat... and are you going for the BBQ party after that ? :D

hui wen · 1 year ago

I was watching your clip while munching on famous amos cookies (kinda like watching a good movie :P).. So touching! I am going to call my dad now and tell him, "Nah, you can have half of my famous amos no nut chocolate chip cookie" :D

aimee · 1 year ago

T.T

angelyn · 1 year ago

Everything will be all right ;D

LifeForRent · 1 year ago

Why does your blog not have a chatterbox where i can constantly spam you and tell you that i've tagged you to do something on my blog???

Omg i sound like a woman...

You better call me sooon...i'll b waiting =)

smartypants · 1 year ago

hey, these are signs of ur emotional countdown to leaving home - vacillating btw sadness & excitement, torn btw dependence & independence, overwhelmed with doing too much yet not doing enough…

No 14 - hold lots of wisdom and truth esp "acknowledge that you’re worthy and treat every kindness as a loan. pay it forward, pass it on, and don’t forget to pass it back "

No 16 - the oreo thingy is probably triggering separation anxiety or pre-departure homesickness and the emotional rollercoaster which she may not be aware but definitely riding throughout the video...

Pinkpau, "Just do your best and leave the rest"

hw · 1 year ago

aw pau =( i has teers in mah eyez.... such a touching, honest, heartfelt, sincere video/post... just amazes me how you can connect to your readers so damn well and convey your feelings like that

we all take certain things for granted at some point of time and not realise it... we can all get distracted by our own personal stuff that we often forget the ones who brought us into this world.. after watching your video it dawned upon me that despite me working at home and being at home most of the time, i dont get to see my parents much at all because i wake up when my parents (and everyone else) is asleep and sleep when they are awake.

anyway, you're a good person and a good daughter, your video and post exemplifies it. though your dad does have a point, imo you should spend more time with your family especially since you'll be heading off to the States very soon for a long time...

but yeah, no matter what you do your dad (and mom) will still love you... i'm sure if your dad sees the video he'll be really touched and happy.

george · 1 year ago

emo fringe for an emo girl :D

pinkpau · 1 year ago

nickie : yes i definitely have to be a lot more conscientious from now on. sigh.

jc : :)

waifon : i scared to give him... the cookie is in a tupperware in my room :(

jemima : hehe i hope so. i kinda feel nervous about giving him the cookie actually

reallybites : tqtq !

angelicassie : hehe. then i dedicate this oreo video to you too :) and to all other daddy's girls out there!

fern : highly unlikely :P

megan : sorry :(

yuhhui : haha even though this video was made for him, im cringing inside at the thought of him watching this video. sigh!

liz : yes that was why i chose this topic for my video :) something i wanna say to my dad but would never know how to say in person.

candyclaire : hehe i hope so :))

dawn 1o9 : ah yes :) unconditional love at its best.

sha : thank u! it looks really messy now cos i havent been maintaining it :\

christmas : wise words :) thank u

ky : no i think i should do a compilation of videos of people who have waited for the late me in the past... hahaha

val : i'm sure u meant well, val, but i cant help but feel a little irked about your comment. this video is a video for me to tell my dad something that i normally would not be able to do in person, and i happen to also want to share it with my friends and family reading this blog. i guess whether or not it is private, is for me and no one else to decide. about the advertorial part, an advertorial is like every other post on my blog - i will write it the way i want to, in my own style. the 'relevance' of a post to anything is subjective, and luckily for me, i dont get a lot of people telling me how i should write my posts or my advertorials. as far as i'm concerned, the requirement for this post was an Oreo Moment, and i think i captured an Oreo Moment that i can rightly call mine, and i guess that makes it as relevant as it can be.

sarah : i wont i wont :)) he knows i love him but i guess it doesnt hurt to remind him every now and then eh :)

kimberlycun : hahahaha KIMBERLYCUN dun spoil my moment!!

anonymous : i am so very sorry to hear that :( i dont know what to say. it's not my place to say this, i know, but please do find it in you to forgive yourself. it must be so hard to live with that kind of burden.

grace : i totally agree with you about dads :) they always try to be so macho but WE KNOW. hehehe. ya i'm hoping that via this video i get to escape the real life equivalent of it.. dont think i'd be able to handle all the emoness. sigh. sorry i made u sad :(

samantha : thank u :)) i hope so too.

missypeipei : i dun think i will ever grow out of crying.. haha! but thank u :)

michelle : WHERE ISSIT!

kalo : thank u :)) sorry for making u almost cry :\

seowqj : i will :)

sweatlee : okay but you are not online now T__T

kok : hahahaha grind it up and put it in coffe?!?! wtf! no lah i put it in a tupperware!

carol : *blush ! :)

ann jie : i got an email today from a girl who said my video made her call her parents to say i love you. it made me really happy :) and likewise, i am also happy that you're thinking about your own relationship with your parents too :)

emily : huhu sorry for making u cry =( yes you must go give your dad a big hug :) to let him know you know he's trying. haha NO my surname is most definitely not pau hahaha

skyler : thank u skylery wuwuwu

entwined : highly unlikely but let's see what happens :P pretty meh i look damn tired and pale!

carol : yeah i actually thought for a really long time if i should put up this video.. and eventually decided that i would :) because i simply wanted to share it. not only with my dad, but with everyone else who may feel the same way as me. yes yes i will be there for both event and bbq!! cant wait to see u too! :D

hui wen : hahahaha! pls tell me what he says in response to that!

aimee : =(((

angelyn : hehe thank u. i love it when people tell me that :) it's like an instant comfort.

life for rent : i have plurk nowwww mr loh. click on plurk and tell me something! hehe yes call soon

smartypants : smartypants i dowan to go to US already wuwuwu :(

hw : sigh why do we take people for granted? it's such a mean thing to do yet it happens all the time. i feel like shit about it. i guess this video came at the right time for me, cos it's not too late to spend time with my dad before i leave :) at least i realized it in time :) yesyes mr hw i will spend time with the family! lots of it.

george : no emo glasses :\ or emo piercings :\

songjun · 1 year ago

so sad can cry ok :(

kiasu andrew · 1 year ago

whom* i would share my last oreo with.

or

with whom to get rid of the split infinitive.

RuYi · 1 year ago

That was beautiful, I often feel exactly the same, but I just can't express the way you did.

The video was so sincere, your f ather is lucky to have you as a daughter. :)

vvens · 1 year ago

i regret watching your video :'(

chimpanzee · 1 year ago

Almost cry watching this video...:(

YUN · 1 year ago

Ohh gosh. You made me guilty now.. Because he was like asking me if I wanted chicken rice for lunch and I was sleeping because I'm not schooling today and I was all "Hmmm.." and asked him to go away. =( I sppose I have to apologise to him. Thanks SuAnn! Don't cry now. =)

Yan · 1 year ago

Touching yet inspiring :)

And oh, Hi!

:)

Darren · 1 year ago

Very very nice & touching.
Good luck for ur submissions..Oreo should get sued if they dun let you win! lolz kiddin..but true enuf, they should let you win la hehe;)

Michelle · 1 year ago

coming up....=) haha. you will see it on thursday...=)

King · 1 year ago

Oreo should state The World's Favorite Cookie on its packaging, well that or famous amos

sheon · 1 year ago

aiyah! cant watch this in the office.........others will be suspicious who is sobbing under my desk!!! (my cpu under my desk wan mah)

will watch it at home......but hang on in there buddy!!! to me, dads are as great as moms....but moms get more publicity...hehehe....

kei · 1 year ago

so sweeet lah :) yess there's always some connection betweeen dads and daughters ahahahhaa.

but even the most perfect daughter would feel like she disappointed her dad every once in a while lah heehee :D

Mabel · 1 year ago

I think I do not know how to show my dad how I care for him. We have our fights and I don't tell him that I am leaving as well. But he always ends up forgiving me for being mean. Unconditional love from father. Don't cry.

'cia · 1 year ago

thanx su ann,
u just opened my eyes and made me appreciate my parents a lil bit more...
thank God for a parent's unconditional love
I don't know what I'd do without it

spot · 1 year ago

it's so awkward and weird to tell dads how much they mean to us, i know :(

i hope you do get the courage to give your dad the other half of that cookie, it'll be so sweet :) figuratively and literally

jaecy · 1 year ago

when i saw the 1st few minutes of ur video, i was like.. omy, y sound so sad wan.. feel like she's gonna cry...n a sec after that thought, u cried. n absurdly, i cried as well. i have a very bad relationship with my father. for example, it was his birthday yesterday, n i totally forgotten. instead of calling him, i wished him through sms instead. cos the both of us dun actually talk. but i know he loves me, and i hope he knows that i love him too. ur video gave me the courage to give him a call n wish him happy birthday to him... i still didn't have the guts to say i love u yet.. but yeah..it's an achievement~ :)

Adrian · 1 year ago

everyone's said it.. good vid ;)

bs · 1 year ago

u made me cryyyyy.... sigh...

Esther · 1 year ago

I read your blog almost everyday and this is my first time commenting on your blog though. Its a very nice video and I bet your dad will understand if he sees this video. =)

Calvin · 1 year ago

Your video is as touching as any of Petronas adverts. It is nothing wrong to express your feelings in your blog and I don't see why you should be worried about people judging you from that video. Well, I do not know your personally, but I guess it is still not too late for you to realise that and you still have plenty of time to make up for that.

Cheer up kay?

And your video made me have some thoughts about my parent at home too T_T

Simon Seow · 1 year ago

Oreo McFlurry rawks!

carolyong · 1 year ago

you know... even if this doesn't win the competition, you have done an awesome thing by putting it up simply by the amount of people who have been reminded to love and appreciate their fathers while they are still around. not everyone is as lucky. i get scared to no end when i realize that he will not be around forever. TT

Gin · 1 year ago

wah!! ure oreo sounded damn crunchy >=( WHY U SPOIL MY DIET! wtf.

Vanessa · 1 year ago

hey Su Ann, i'm actually a daily reader of your blog and this is my first time commenting...

I felt sooo touched throughout the whole oreo session video, I do think I always take things for granted especially frm my parents.

This video really hit me ritez on my head: telling me how to appreciate the love from loved ones. T_T

*thumbs up for your video* dun be sad.. cheer up! =)

Anonymous · 1 year ago

since already know that u don't spend much time with ur dad/family then make more time for them la..dun spend too much time on blogging or friends etc everything that we do there must be a balance..what im trying to say is, parents do not have much time for us to spend with, they'll get old and die, do not take them for granted... cheers :)

the milkyland · 1 year ago

hmmm.. don't cry.. cheers up...

Anonymous · 1 year ago

So touching. Your dad would be proud to have you as a daughter! He would be really touched if he saw your video too. Maybe you should uh, let him find it 'accidentally'. Don't let your siblings find out about what you said about you being the precious one! Haha, I feel bad for them, but I guess, parents will always have secret favorites. I'm not close to my dad though... I wonder who I should share my last Oreo with... Lol!

kreazi · 1 year ago

Watching the first few seconds of the video made me guess that it's going to be some emo one... and you had me crying with you not long after! I too felt that I'm not a very good daughter either to my parents when they've done so much for me esp in my darkest hours few years back.. they were the one who loved me unconditionally and stood by me when everything else seemed so bleak in my life. Your video is a wake up call to many who have been taking their parents for granted :)

pinkshirtz · 1 year ago

sighs ... its a crappy feeling, not being able to talk to my parents for the past 5 or 6 years. Home is no longer somewhere i want to be. And with each passing day, the empty house just reminds me of the life it had last time.

you're right .. why is it so hard for guys to say i love you in public. It's hard ... impossible sometimes. And no maater how much i know i'll regret it later, i still don't say out my hearts content. That sucks ...

Smiles there ... and opps ... i didn't mean to say your friend as being lame ... maybe our comprehension of lame ir different ... i meant i t in a good way, at least there's someone to spice up our life. X)

pinkshirtz · 1 year ago

PS: Don't snoot your nose on your shirt sleeve, it attracts bacteria! Cheerie....

Crystal · 1 year ago

Even if you don't win the contest, you sure made a really nice video. I'm a daughter too, not a very good one in fact, but I do still try even though I keep faltering. Keep the Oreo love alive, Su Ann =)

Brenda · 1 year ago

Don't cry. *hugs*
Love your hair cut.

Huai Bin · 1 year ago

It's a great video Su Ann! I love the setting and the part about sharing your last Oreo with your dad. Nice.

madeline k. · 1 year ago

hey girl
ur video make me feel the need to have a dad too!
its truly sweet,touching and very sincere....im sure thats d best present a dad can receive as ur homecoming present=)

Sandra · 1 year ago

Share with me! as im crazy for Oreos!!!! hehehehe

joy · 1 year ago

your english command is really good. have you ever been educated overseas before? do you speak any other languages?

another thing is, well, u may think that you are mature enough at thig age. trust me, ive gone through all this before. instead of crying in front of the camera of how much your dad loves you, yet you did not appreciate his love, i think you should really do something about it. bear in mind that family should always come first before anything else- be it your boyfriend or friends. there is no guarantee that you will marry your current bf and be with him forever and ever. friends come and go. but your family will stay by you through thick and thin. trust me. one day when u have your own children, you will understand this.

charlenediane · 1 year ago

Su Ann you made me cry :(

me · 1 year ago

Hahahahaha! Very funny! So stupid!

Cherrie · 1 year ago

I teared. :(

weiqi · 1 year ago

don't cry because you have a very great dad. smile for him. i m sure he loves to see u smile

sharon (^.^) · 1 year ago

big fan of ur blog but my 1st time commenting.
the most wonderful video among all.

u're one lucky girl and i'm sure he understands.
:)

hugs..

take care & hope to hear more of u

Eleanor · 1 year ago

god woman you made me cry in my shop. customers are asking if they did something wrong to me ahahaha.

but if anyone asked me that same question, my answer would be the same as yours, cept my dad isnt around anymore. at least you realized with time still on your hands. think the last time i spoke to my dad, he told me he wasn't coming to see me coz he was going on vacation. i gladly agreed coz i wanted to spend time with my horrible excuse of a boyfriend back then. so silly the things we let get in the way... maybe if i threw a hissy fit he wouldnt have gone.

*hugs* thanks for posting up that vid.

狐 · 1 year ago

awww... Well... The way I look at it how come daddy was not happy with you, is mostly because he loves u so much and he cares about u too much...
This video really touches my heart...

suzanne · 1 year ago

hi, my first time commenting on your blog. sigh. this post reminds me of my relationship with my daddy. he's the most important figure in my life and the only person who can love me wholly, unconditionally and non-judgmentally (such word?). you had me in tears. the video, simple as it is, is truly touching and beautiful. you did a great job! and reading your blog, i believed you have been a wonderful and loving daughter because you're such a loving and caring person. i mean, look at all your accomplishments!! any father would have been proud! anyhow, take care and all the best in your future undertakings!

CalvinC · 1 year ago

There always up n downs in our life.. People do make mistakes and regret for what they have done. I've had a rough time with my parents as well not only my dad. I know how u feel, i am emotional guy. My tears always drop when im trying to express something which i feel very bad n regret. An advice, just let the pass go and dont think about it again. If u recall it conincidentally, talk with ur boyfriend ( ur partner will always be better than ur oridnary frens, u know what i mean. )n it really helps to stable ur emotions. Never look back in your journey of life and appreciate the things around u while u can.

p/s: You're dad will always be your dad, and your dad will never hate their children no matter wad they do. Because they love you.

*Your clip was really touching, i believe your dad will feel touched as well when he sees it.

best wishes.

regards,
CalvinC